It shows a deeper level of trust in both him and your relationship, she adds, because you're making yourself vulnerable. And if you want it to go both ways, make it a pseudo-game: For every secret you tell, he confesses one, too. Chances are you know what makes your man laugh. You wouldn't live a life devoid of laughter and humor , right?
But even if you're not a master comedian or a jokester, get this: A study from the University of Kansas revealed that a good way to gauge your romance levels is to laugh together. The study also revealed that the more times a guy makes a woman laugh, the more she's into him — which, in turn, leads to romance. It makes sense: laughter is important!
So maybe catch an improv or comedy show, or even just fire up Netflix to watch a new comedian's special. Does your partner dig computer science? Is he really into old noir movies?
Is he obsessed with the history of Idaho for some reason? Do a little digging and learn about something he's super passionate about. He'll appreciate that you're taking an interest in a topic that's important to him, and it can certainly fuel conversations.
Plus, it might motivate him to learn about one of your quirky interests, too. You don't have to spring for lessons — just put on some of his favorite music and ask him to dance.
It'll bring you physically and emotionally closer. And, when you're literally in step, you'll feel more connected to one another, according to a study. How long has it been since you told him how grateful you are for all he does?
Write him a note to express just how much his support means. You'll strengthen your relationship in the long-run, too, according to a study. Friends or partners who regularly express their gratitude are more comfortable talking openly with one another about relationship concerns. Don't feel guilty about all that time you spent getting caught up on Game of Thrones last weekend. Watching a show together is a good excuse to cuddle and it'll strengthen your bond — science says so.
According to a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships , "fictional social worlds" — like the one dreamed up by your favorite showrunner — "can also bring relationship partners closer together," the authors write.
The benefits were especially pronounced for couples who don't have many mutual friends: "[S]haring media may help maintain a sense of sharing a social world with partners, which can particularly benefit relationships that lack an integrated social network," the study says. Sometimes, it's easy to get caught up in day-to-day conversation-starters, like "how was work? Always kiss your partner good morning, good night, hello, and goodbye. After you get to the end of a day together, tell your partner the things you liked most about the day together.
Journal about your dates and experiences with your partner so you remember them in detail. Reminisce about your fondest memories together—bring up specific details about your partner and the way you felt about them in those moments.
Ask your partner what makes them feel loved, and then do those things. Remember important dates and events your partner has coming up, and check in on them on those days asking how things went or celebrating getting over the milestones. Surprise your partner at work with a homemade lunch or meal from their favorite restaurant. Make your partner breakfast in bed. Come up from behind your partner while they're doing something and wrap your arms around them.
Hold your partner's hand, or put your arm around them in public. Drop in mentions of how much you love your partner while hanging out in group settings. When you know your partner is going to have a hard day at work, show up at their office at the end of the day to walk home with them. Compliment your partner often. Write your partner poetry. Watch romantic movies together, and then start bringing in the sweetest lines into how you talk to your partner.
If you don't live together, text your partner good night every night. Talk about what you envision your future together to be like. Spark some romantic conversations every now and then!
Here are some conversation starters for couples. Don't fall asleep after sex—instead, cuddle and tell your partner what you liked about your sexual experience. If they like physical touch , touch your partner when you talk to them: Rest your hand on their knee, rub their arm, or hold hands.
Bring back souvenirs for them when you come back from trips so they know you were thinking about them. If you see something in a store that you know they'd like, buy it for them—just because. Go all out on date nights every now and then: candles, music, cooking special meals, the whole nine yards.
Suggest new ideas for things to do together as a couple. When they're talking to you, really listen —put away any tech, make eye contact, and fully engage in the conversation. Get creative with how you express your love: Use metaphors, reference past memories, and go beyond just "I love you. Make your partner coffee, tea, or their preferred drink in the morning before they even get up. Do small things around the house that you know will make your partner's life easier.
Don't worry about trying to play it cool—lean into sentimentality. Kiss your partner in places other than on the lips: Try their forehead, back of the hand, or shoulder. Ask your partner what they find romantic, and do that. Kelly Gonsalves is a multi-certified sex educator and relationship coach based in Brooklyn, as well as the sex and relationships editor at mindbodygreen.
She has a degree in journalism Tuck it into their pocket before work or leave it on their pillow for when they return. Have they always wanted to write a play? Read their script! Help them edit that music video! Do a puzzle! Have them put on a nice outfit and you can wear your cutest heels.
If your person is addicted to gaming or loves building miniatures, ask them to give you an intro lesson. Being relaxed and feeling loosened up can really get sparks flying later in the privacy of your own home if you know what I mean. Good news: Here's a super fun, easy-to-play book for allllll the sex games.
Do they love dogs? All the fuzzy love you get from helping animals in need and cuddling furry friends will definitely encourage feelings of love and affection. United States.
Type keyword s to search. Today's Top Stories. Your Horoscope for the Week of November Leah Flores Stocksy. Getty Images. Make their bed in the morning. Write a note in their day planner. Commit to doing something only with each other. Let them take the leftovers home after a date.
Be the person they can vent to. Be accommodating to their schedule and time. Cook them food. Take a road trip together.
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